Bar mitzvah is an important ceremony for all the representatives of Jewish culture. There are certain rules concerning Bar mitzvah attire, behavior, foods, and activity during the event. Jewish laws are quite strict and conservative concerning Bar mitzvah and Bat mitzvah. That’s why it is vital to know the requirements before you start planning your ceremony or visit one.
Clothing for the service in synagogue
The first thing you should know is your dress. It is vital to wear something modest and respectful. The Bar mitzvah invitations usually have information concerning the appropriate attire. There are general requirements as well, which are as follows:
Besides, there are special accessories for men, which are required to wear during the ceremony. They are:
Sometimes Tefillin is also required when the event is planned for the days of public Torah readings and Tefillin is a must for Bar/Bat Mitzvah’s boy/girl.
The next important issue is your behavior. It is necessary to be respectful to the event, God, occasion, and the family. Thus, try to forget about your mobile phone, videos & pictures, smoking, and other disrespectful behavior. It’s better to try to avoid speaking too loud (unless you’re singing when songs are run).
Besides, it’s necessary to get ready for the dynamic service. Bar mitzvah ceremony never deals with a quiet listening of a Rabbi. You’ll have to participate in the service. There is nothing to worry about. You can just look at the others and do the same things. It is easy even if you attend such an event for the first time.
The service in the synagogue might last for 2 hours, so it is okay if it is a bit hard for you to follow it.
Another important issue for the participants of the Bar mitzvah event is a gift. In most cases, a reasonable decision is to give money. For those, who still want to bring something special, the following items will be appropriate:
Besides, when selecting a gift, it is vital to consider, how religious the family is, how well you know them, and what gifts they would appreciate the most in order not to make a mistake.