It’s not a secret that a lot of information on the Internet about this festive day boils down to the formal meaning of this holiday to a boy or a girl and a number of religious aspects telling what will the ascending to Torah (for the first time in adult life) mean from now on to an adolescent.
Very unlikely, you will find practical pieces of advice: there is a little information about the specificities of the holiday from the point of view of its organization and filling with sense-bearing particularities.
For instance, what cake’s design to select better. Or what blessing words could everyone tell to Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Today, we’re going to consider the topic of traditional Bar Mitzvah Bat Mitzvah blessings. Or, as they also called, congratulations. And will fill the article with practical advice.
Bar Mitzvah Blessings (in Hebrew traditions)
“Mazel Tov” is what every representative of Hebrew people knows from the age of diapers. These words literally mean ‘congratulations’ or a ‘good luck’ and are spoken almost every day as wishing of good luck in everything that of importance. That’s why people will also tell them on Bar Mitzvah, maybe several times a minute. But that does not mean that you can’t come up with anything better.
Below, we list a number of Bar Mitzvah’s congrats. You are free to use them to say the words of support and rejoice in this finest day:
Besides, the father of a son or a daughter can say the traditional words of blessing thanking God for no more religious responsibility for his Bar/Bat Mitzvah, as he/she is responsible now on own.
You can always say any words that are coming from your heart, no need to specifically search something to extract a line or two for this. However, if you feel that nothing good comes to your mind, you can always use the textual help of Tanakh that contains the wisdom of millenniums. We surely believe you will be able to find something really helpful there.
The Oral Torah knows some right points that are respected and it is unlikely that you wouldn’t find anything suitable there. If you are religious enough and/or want to give some non-standard lines of congratulations to your son/daughter, then try to search in Nevi’im, Ketuvim or Five Scrolls (Hamesh Megillot).
Remember that this day is a celebration above all. Try not to be too strict as the festivity of mood in this day is one of the best points that will be recalled by the boy/girl for long years. As a loving parent, it’s okay to say words from your heart that may find their way even without preparation. Wish him/her luck, prosperity, good health, substantial achievements in the area of importance, or anything other that would suit the moment.